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Relationship Coaching

A clear direction for your relationship

Relight your love
through increased connection, communication, and intimacy.

Sign up for a free 20 minute consultation to see if relationship coaching is a good fit for you!

Most couples are spending tons of energy trying to manage each other and it just isn't working. Often they're left feeling tired, resentful, lonely, burnt out,  and on the verge of giving up. My approach teaches couples how they can truly change the relationship. I teach them how to reach the feeling of love and closeness they want. How to foster intimacy and connection. 


This unique approach creates lasting results that will continue and grow beyond our work together. 

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     In our coaching sessions you will:

  • Experience interactive sessions specific to you.

  • Understand the 'whys' and 'hows' of your relationship dynamics.

  • Stop the cycles of hurt, frustration, and distance.

  • Learn lifelong relationship skills that everyone should learn.

  • Be given clear directives on what to do next.

  • Create a relationship that is stronger and deeper than it ever was before.

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You can absolutely work with your partner on this, but it really only takes you. You can change the communication pattern that is keeping you apart. You can change the relationship, all on your own, with or without your partner's buy-in. Don't miss out on the love that is inside your relationship. The saddest thing I see in relationships today is those couples who love each other so much, but fail to communicate it in a way that the other person can feel. Ultimately, this relationship falls apart. Make sure you aren't one of these couples.


Learn how to open up the love that you have for each other

through clear and direct communication.

Don’t settle for the disconnect, take action to create the relationship you desire. One that is better, stronger, and more deeply in love than ever. You deserve a secure, connected, and loving relationship. A relationship that can tackle all the issues- from kids, household items, money, sex, or which restaurant to eat at- and stay connected.

Attend our free consultation and you will discover what is truly driving your disconnect.

See the power you have to create the magic you want.


[Brett] totally changed my mindset on how I thought my husband wanted our relationship to be and made me realize we wanted the same thing for our future and love to grow. It [is] so encouraging and uplifting.

- Jaana B.| Coaching Client


You're ready now, so, what do you need to do to get started?




CLICK HERE to sign up for a free consultation with your coach, Brett!

Get coached independently  or together with your partner.  (It's true, even independent work will give you amazing results!!)

Enjoy a loving and intimate relationship that you'll want to keep forever!

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          This is life changing for my relationship. I am doing this alongside of working on my personal mental health, and for the first time in a long time I am excited about my relationship again!!

   - Coaching Client



          We are really enjoying this and find it's definitely thought provoking. It's helping us see what we tend to do when things are going awry. For reals, thanks for putting this together! I feel like it's opening us up to topics and a better understanding of each other. 

   -Jaana & Anthony B

           The calls have brought up many conversations and it has given us time to just be together and talk etc. We are loving each call! Thank you so much for doing this!!

   -Cassie & Kyle S.

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Get the best value with our relationship coaching package!

The coaching package includes:

-- Six, 50-minute personalized sessions with Brett.

-- A Ticket to our annual virtual couples Reconnect Retreat!

-- Prepare/Enrich assessment to develop a clear concrete path towards revitalizing your relationship.

-- A copy to my Emotional and Sexual Intimacy master class

-- A fresh, new way to communicate that grows love and connection.

-- Tools to change your relationship, no matter what your partner does.

On top of all that, we are giving you 3 FREE months inside our CONNECTED COUPLES CAMPUS

This includes:

- 11 lesson online course, chock-full of high-quality information on how to grow and develop your relationship

24/7 access to content/videos/resources + group chat

- Direct Support from Brett, whenever necessary

- the opportunity to attend live coaching calls with Brett every week (with complete anonymity)
- tools you need to solve any issuewhich means less fighting with quick resolutions when you do fight 
- increased connection without sacrificing individuality/autonomy
- change in the relationship without needing to change either spouse

- learn to communicate through 'hot button' issues so they don't have to be huge arguments anymore

And, most importantly, you will discover the secret to maintaining your love for a lifetime.

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Attend a free 20-minute consultation to see how relationship coaching can increase your love!

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You don’t need to bring anything into this except you. Together we will discover the source of your distance. It works if you're married, committed, divorced, or single and looking for the best possible future. You’ve waited long enough. You’ve tried so many things on your own and there has been no magical turn around.

To get started on your relationship revamp, sign up for your free 20 minute consultation with Brett!

Brett is a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified life and relationship coach and is ready to meet with you to hear your story. He is ready to show you how to bring your relationship from roommates to romance! 

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Hi, I'm Brett and that's my lovely wife Kelsey! One thing about me that helps me in my job is that I absolutely enjoy getting to know new people and I cannot wait to meet you, too!  I am a licensed therapist and certified life coach helping couples and individuals have their dream relationships!  My job is to show you the cause of the problems in your relationship and to teach you new skills that will create the change you long for. Your job is to take that bold first step and reach out today- let's get started.

Brett Nikula | LMFT Therapist | Life Coach

This podcast is for you. The one who knows that there are so many great things about your relationship, BUT... it just feels like the arguing is endless. You want to stay together so bad, but it just feels so painful. Listen in. Here you will learn new ways of creating change. You will learn to understand the beast that is conflict and you will learn how to tame it. You will learn to create the connection you want and the partnership that is possible. You listen, you learn, you apply, you both change.

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