If you find your relationship to be especially challenging, it can be hard to accept. We all want a happy and fulfilling relationship. I want you to have that, too. Life seems to have it’s own challenges. A common one many experience is relational challenges. And, if we can accept that premise; that relationships have challenges, things get easier.
It becomes easier because we no longer have to spend our energy fighting off the challenges. We can instead embrace them and spend that energy figuring out how to work through it. It’s a matter of changing the mind from ‘this isn’t supposed to happen’ to ‘this is happening, what can I do about it?’
Once you accept, you can act. The best relationship action starts by making sure you are the spouse you want to be.